I made a midnight snack and I was like…dang waffles would be so much easier to butter if they didn’t have all these ridges. Then I was like…oh holy shit if they didn’t have ridges they’d be pancakes.
do you ever just
make a friend and think
I am so glad this friend is mine
Just a bit of a comparison. First picture is pre-T over two years ago. Second picture is now at two year, two months on testosterone.
My thesis project, Dom & Sub, a.k.a. why I’ve been such a bad tumblr-er/bad friend/etc. My artist statement:
Dom & Sub is a body of illustrative work in digital media that attempts to humanize practitioners of BDSM and offer a representation of kinky sex that not only refutes negative stereotypes but informs the audience that sadomasochistic play is done best between happy, healthy, and consenting adults. I portrayed the couple in the work not only engaging in S&M play but also building a “scene” together and nurturing one another after the play has concluded; these are moments often left unconsidered or completely ignored in visual representations of S&M. I believe it’s important to see how kinky scenes are crafted with care, commitment to safety and enthusiastic consent in order to limit those times when sadomasochistic play is used to abuse or dehumanize other human beings. It is my hope that my audience will learn from the illustrations that sadomasochistic play is not always dark or scary, and that fellow ‘kinksters’ can enjoy tender representations of S&M that do not ridicule or pathologize them. I’ve designed the work to engage sadomasochistic imagery, material and theory with an ethical conscience.
I seriously don’t say it enough but holy smokes I’m thinking it all the time. I think I’m the luckiest guy ever to have the support of so many amazing people. I have the most encouraging and fantastic friends, and the most incredible girlfriend who always goes the extra mile for me. I’m sorry I seem so down on myself a lot, but I really appreciate all the effort you all make to keep my spirits up. YOU ALL MAKE ME SO HAPPY. 